đŸ”„ “He Finally Said Sorry — and Everything Changed”: The Tear-Soaked Secret Behind Penny Lancaster & Rod Stewart’s 25-Year Marriage

Penny Lancaster broke down in tears as she recounted her and Rod Stewart 's emotional love story in a new BBC festive specialPenny Lancaster could barely finish her sentences as she revisited the love story that changed her life — and in a rare moment of raw vulnerability, even Rod Stewart struggled to hold back tears as he revealed the fragile promise that has quietly sustained their 25-year marriage.

Looking back at their love story for the first episode of series two of Anita Rani 's My Life At Christmas, Penny was overcome with emotion as she repeatedly broke downThe deeply emotional confessions unfolded during the festive premiere of BBC’s My Life at Christmas with Anita Rani, where the model-turned-presenter, 54, and the 80-year-old rock legend opened their hearts in a way viewers had never seen before.

Their love story began in 1999, when Penny was still a student at Barking College and Rod — newly divorced and emotionally adrift — was standing center stage at one of his concerts. Penny photographed him that night. Numbers were exchanged. Then
 silence.

For nine long months.

Discussing how they first met, Penny revealed it wasn't until nine months after first exchanging numbers that Rod reached out to take Penny outUnknown to Penny, Rod’s loyal band leader, Carmine Appice, quietly intercepted her phone number, fearing his best friend wasn’t emotionally ready to meet the woman who would become his forever.

“I didn’t know whether I was coming or going after my divorce,” Rod admitted softly.
“He kept her number because he thought I needed time to find myself again.”

Anticipating that his best pal wasn't ready to meet the love of his life yet, Rod's band leader withheld Penny's number from the musician until he was in a better place (pictured in 2003)Penny, wiping away tears, revealed she had already convinced herself that their brief encounter was nothing more than a fleeting memory.
“I developed the film from that night and thought, ‘Well
 that was lovely. And that’s that.’”

But fate had other plans.

When Rod finally felt whole again, he reached out. That long-delayed phone call changed everything.

From that moment on, Penny was slowly woven into one of music’s most complex family tapestries. Rod was already a father of six from previous relationships, spanning generations, personalities — and heartbreaks.

However Penny wasn't the only one to get emotional after Rod also shed a tear at the end of the interview as he revealed the secret to their 25 year relationship (pictured in 2006)Stepping into that world wasn’t easy.

“I tiptoed,” Penny confessed, her voice breaking.
“These children came from different mothers, different histories. Some were tiny, some were grown. I thought the best thing I could do was stay quiet
 stay present
 and wait for them to choose me.”

It took years. But today, that once-fragile bond has become unbreakable.

“The kids adore her now,” Rod said emotionally.
“They look to her for advice. She’s the center of our family.”

The couple married in 2007 after welcoming their first son, Alastair, in 2005. Their second son, Aiden, followed in 2011 — completing the family they once feared might never fully come together.

The interview’s most spiritual moment came when Penny recounted meeting Pope Francis in 2018 through a charity bid. As she described the Pope gently placing his hands over theirs, her voice collapsed entirely.

“It felt like every quiet prayer we’d whispered to ourselves
 was suddenly being heard,” she said.
“It felt like destiny.”

However Penny wasn't the only one to get emotional after Rod also shed a tear at the end of the interview as he revealed the secret to their 25 year relationshipThen came Rod’s own breaking point.

Asked about the secret behind their 25-year bond, the man who has lived decades in the public eye offered an answer that left the studio in silence:

“We don’t go to bed angry. We don’t argue after wine. And when we do fall out — it ends fast.”

His voice cracked.

“I try to teach all my kids that real men say sorry,” he said through tears.
“That’s real strength.”

In a world obsessed with fleeting love stories, Penny Lancaster and Rod Stewart quietly reminded viewers what endurance, humility, and forgiveness really look like.

Not perfect love.
But real love.